Around the world, it is estimated that 9% of the total population are over the age of 65. With the average life expectancy for men being 74 years of age and for women 77, that means an estimated 18.1 million of the world’s LGBTQ+ population are near to or at retirement age. Now consider that individuals over the age of 50 make up a staggering 34% of the global population. These combined statistics mean that over one-third of the community are aged 50 years or older.

Many quality LGBTQ+ community-related resources are available today, including websites, influencers, or news items. Many will use images and illustrations often centred around young, typically physically fit and attractive individuals. Usually, if represented, older individuals are portrayed as either incredibly fit or highly attractive people. Many of these older individuals are generally featured in fetishes, with younger people preferring older, daddy or mummy relationships. However, it is often difficult to find an accurate representation of ordinary and every day more senior community members.

Representation is important for people to feel that they belong, and society accepts them, regardless of their age. If older community members cannot identify from as young as 50, imagine how it is for someone who is 65 or older. The lack of representation may have an adverse effect on elderly members of the community, making them feel less or unwanted. As a result, many may hide away or live more reclusive lifestyles.

Representation does not need to be around sex or even one of the many Instagram-styled scenes. It is more about reflecting and portraying the reality that these individuals exist. By showcasing older individuals, ultimately, the community will benefit. Older people add tremendous value, a wealth of experience, personalities and would be a great addition to any support networks. We create the supportive and caring families we need, rather than the ones we are born into, especially those conventional families that may not always accept how we live our lives.

Aside from representation, some senior members will likely also feel lonely and isolated, especially if they lose a life partner later on in their lives. In addition, given the changing perceptions over the years, there is also the reality that many older individuals may have been rejected by their families many years before. Finally, their circle of friends may have significantly reduced as friends age, move or pass away.

In recent years, members of the LGBTQ+ community have started families of their own by legally having or adopting children. For some, starting a family has meant that they will have a supportive family network later on in life. This option was not available to many older members of the community. Many older LGBTQ+ individuals grew up in a period where they experienced prejudice. They may not have been able to have been their true selves until a lot later on in their lives. Of course, not everyone wants a large circle of friends, family or even to be singled out; however, having the option to choose in itself is an advantage to all.